Oct 25, 2009

Nuptials

Wed-lock, tying knot ... why is it said so... i wonder... why? it sounds like bonded labor...that's why may be today's generation is scared to get married and to fall into any commitment like this, or feel its added responsibility or burden? They are not brave enough to face this kind of bondage and fear of losing their freedom and space.. more than before!

Feeling: Locked

Any suggestions... for renaming? Please feel free to share... :)

5 comments:

Dr. C.Krishnamurthy said...

Yes u r right, but wedlock is a necessary evil what i feel. Even before my marriage i was in a dilemma whether to marry or not . I posed this question to many of my friends but some said yes and few said no to marriage. But one of my senior friends now a Director and Head of a reputed Mangament Institute in Bangalore, said when we were quenching a cup of tea under a tree that my friend " if don't marry u will suffer and if marry u will definately suffer , so it is better to suffer marrying rathor suffering aloof. So now i feel happy that i am suffering being married rathor than suffering being un-married. Wedlock is not really a suffering but some sort of a bondage which curtails our freedom, so no regrets . Life is an ajustment and we have to adjust according to the circumstances.

Meethi Imli said...

yes Krishna i agree... shaadike laddu jo khai pachtai, jo na khai wo bhi pachtai... :)))

Iamallurs said...

One reason why elders want to everybody to be locked in a wedding is very simple..If there is no knots, its' not easy to control an adult's freedom .

Meethi Imli said...

But i think adults should be mature enough to control themselves, rather them being under control of something... :)

Iamallurs said...

yep true..but need not be always../